Dear Darlene,I was so sorry to hear of Milton's passing. I have let my brother and sister know. He sure did look like Margaret, didn't he. He was my science teacher one year in high school. It was so hard calling him Mr. Deffenbaugh while in class after so many years of knowing him as just Milton, my brother's buddy. Dick is still down in Texas, enjoying retirement and his grandchildren. Judy is still in Lancaster, Ohio, still very involved with their church; she also volunteers at the local hospital--she plays her autohard and sings to the patients. I am in Manassas, Virginia, having retired in 2006; also enjoying my two granddaughters who live about 10 miles away from me.Please know that our prayers are with you and your family; God will take care of all of you.Love and sympathy,Carol Colby